It does not matter if you feel frightened, bewildered, unreal, unsteady. These feelings are nothing more than an exaggeration of the normal bodily reactions.
Just because you have these sensations, doesn’t mean that you are very sick. These feelings are just unpleasant and frightening, not dangerous. Nothing worse will happen to you.
Let your feelings come. They’ve been in charge of you. You’ve been pumping them up and making them more acute. Stop pumping. Don’t run away from panic. When you feel the panic mount, take a deep breath, and as you breath out, let go. Keep trying. Stay there almost as if you were floating in space. (Floating is the term used by Dr. Weakes). Don’t fight the feeling of panic. Accept it - you can do it.
Try to make yourself as comfortable as possible without escaping. If you are in the street, lean against a post, fence or wall. If you are in a busy department in a store, find a quieter counter or corner. If you are in a boutique, tell the salesperson you don’t feel well and want to sit down for a while. Do not jump into a cab and go home in fear.
Stop adding to your panic with frightening thoughts about what is happening and where it might lead. Don’t indulge in self pity and think: “Why can’t I be like all the other normal people? Why do I have to go through all of this?” Just accept what is happening to you. If you do this, what you fear most will not happen.
Think about what is really happening to your body at this moment. Do not think: “Something terrible is happening. I must get out”. Repeat to yourself: “I will not fall, faint, die, or lose control”.
Now wait and give the fear time to pass. Do not run away. Others have found the strength. You will too. Notice that as you stop adding the frightening thoughts to your panic, the fear starts to fade away by itself.
This is your opportunity to practice. Think of it that way. Even if you feel isolated in space, one of these days you will not feel this way. Someday soon you will be able to go through the panic and say “I did it”. Once you say this, you will have gone a long way towards conquering the fear. Think about the progress you have already made. You are in the situation.
Try to distract yourself from what is going on inside you. Look at your surroundings. See the other people in the street, in the bus. They are with you, not against you.
When the panic subsides, let your body go loose, take a deep breath, and go on with your day. Remember, each time you cope with a panic attack, you reduce the fear.
The book Complete Self Help For Your Nerves by Claire Weekes can be purchased from the ADAVIC online store:
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